It’s no secret that Pilates is the perfect form of exercise for mums recovering from childbirth…whether kids are 6 months, 6 or 16 – some mums may not have prioritised their post-partum core strength recovery, and there’s no better time to start than now! That’s why I’ve developed my Mama Strength Pilates programme with them in mind. Here’s 5 reasons why the gentle, low impact movement is so powerful and beneficial for mums:
1. Rebuilds Core Strength Safely
After pregnancy, many mums experience weakened core muscles or diastasis recti (separation of abdominal muscles). Pilates focuses on gentle, controlled movements that engage and strengthen the deep core muscles, helping to restore stability and function without risking further injury.
2. Improves Posture and Reduces Back Pain
The care we need to give to our little ones often leads to poor posture due to breastfeeding, carrying, and lifting. Pilates constantly works to improve alignment and posture, which can help alleviate back, neck, and shoulder pain caused by the physical demands of motherhood.
3. Strengthens Pelvic Floor Muscles
The Pelvic floor muscles support the bowel, uterus and bladder and they can be weakened through childbirth. Some women are lucky enough that their PF strength bounces back after giving birth, but many women find that they let out a little wee when laughing, sneezing/coughing, and if not given the re-strengthening attention it deserves, could cause ongoing incontinence issues – really annoying! Likewise maintaining a strong PF during and after pregnancy can help reduce the chance of prolapse with strength from down below., and is super helpful when kids get bigger and still demand to be picked up – or generally when lifting any heavy objects. Move over guys: let us strong gals do the lifting here (at least let us pick and choose when we want to lift – ahem.)
4. Boosts Energy and Mental Clarity
Motherhood can be so blooming exhausting, but Pilates can be a rejuvenating escape. By improving circulation and encouraging mindful breathing, it increases energy levels and reduces stress, leaving mums feeling refreshed and more focused. Imagine giving yourself the excuse for regular escapism? “Sorry kids, mum’s got to have some time for herself!”.
5. Adaptable to Every Fitness Level
Pilates is incredibly versatile and can be tailored to suit a mum’s unique needs, whether she’s newly postpartum or years past giving birth. It’s a low-impact yet highly effective way to rebuild strength, flexibility, and confidence at a pace that works for her.
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At Mama Strength Pilates, I believe in the power of transformation. Physical, mental, and emotional growth. The mission is to empower women, especially mums, to rediscover and strengthen their bodies, build confidence, and feel supported every step of the way.
Why I want to share Pilates with EVERYONE who needs it
I discovered Pilates at a time when I’d just had my daughter at 37 and I needed to get back to the stuff that made me happy: Dance. But I’d got lazy in my pregnancy and just felt so down about the fact I couldn’t do the moves I knew I could do pre child. Like, it really got me down. Dance was my outlet, my release and brought me JOY. What happens when I feel trapped – without sounding corny – and I can’t dance? I knew I needed to do something so I started Pilates at my local gym, remembering how it supported my growing strength at dance college. I loved the way it felt gentle and like it was nurturing my body recovering from childbirth. Needing to get back to earning, but not feeling like I’d be able to teach dance in the way I used to immediately, it made complete sense for me to train as an instructor – but it was more than an income. At a time a bit later down the line, when I’d really got my head around the Pilates breathing and the mindful movement, it held me up when my relationship with my daughter’s dad broke down.
I believe Pilates was my therapy.
So many studies link the benefits of movement and breathing with not only supporting physical health, but also mental health. Keeping my emotional health on an even keel was super important for my growing girl who I’m never sure was that aware of her dad’s lack of presence – but I needed to be there for her. To give her my energy and positive energy at that. Don’t get me wrong – there were tough times, and I leant into that too, as grieving is important – but I was able to give her my creativity, imagination, playtime – and as my strength came back – fun playtime when she’d want to roll around and jump all over me whilst I was trying to teach online in lock down(!).
And THIS is why I want to share this glorious movement with many more mums!
Today, I’m excited to share a new look that truly represents the journey and purpose: a fresh, vibrant brand identity that speaks to the strength, resilience, and community at the heart of Mama Strength.
So, what inspired this new branding, and what does it mean for this amazing community? Here’s a look into the story behind the new Mama Strength Pilates branding, logo, and colours, which represents all that I found from the regular Pilates movement.
A Look Into The New Brand Identity: Why I Rebranded
For 4 years, Mama Strength has been a sanctuary for mums looking to rebuild their strength, reconnect with their bodies, and find joy in movement. My mission and vision has grown and developed. I knew that my branding needed to better reflect what Mama Strength truly represents: not just a Pilates class but a complete experience, a place for women to feel empowered, cared for, and part of a supportive community.
With the rebrand, I wanted the look to reflect the heart of Mama Strength: a place where strength, resilience, and support come together to help women thrive.
The Vision for Mama Strength Pilates
At Mama Strength, the vision is bright: I aim to be the UK’s go-to for empowering women through their feminine strength. I support mums in their journey to a stronger, more confident self through a holistic approach that reaches beyond physical fitness. This rebranding celebrates the commitment to providing a supportive, all-encompassing experience where women can feel cared for, valued, and uplifted by a community of like-minded women.
The refreshed brand identity reflects this vision with a bold yet nurturing design that invites all women to step into a world of self-discovery, strength, and adventure.
The New Logo: A Symbol of Strength and Connection
The new logo is more than just an icon; it’s a symbol of the strength and connection that Mama Strength Pilates offers to women at every stage of their journey. Each element of the logo is carefully chosen to represent what makes Mama Strength unique.
Strength and Empowerment: The stars in the logo are inspired by the idea of the magic that is felt from inner and outer strength, in every fibre and cell of the body. Stars symbolise the resilience and confidence that the clients build through Pilates and community support.
Connection and Community: The design represents feminine interconnectedness – a reminder that while every woman’s journey is unique, we are bonded by shared biological journeys and cycles of the body. This symbolises the understanding and care that Mama Strength brings to every member of the community.
The New Colours: Bold, Feminine, and Empowering
The new Mama Strength Pilates colours are designed to reflect the vibrant, dynamic energy of the community and the transformative journey the clients experience. Each colour was thoughtfully chosen to embody the core values: empowerment, care, flexibility, integrity, and future-proofing.
Warm Pastels and Feminine Tones: These colours represent the nurturing, supportive aspect of Mama Strength, reminding the community that strength can be powerful and gentle.
Bold Accents: Vibrant tones reflect the commitment to bold transformations and empowering each woman who joins us to step into her full potential.
Together, the colours evoke a sense of confidence, warmth, and resilience, creating an inviting and uplifting atmosphere for every woman who chooses to embark on this journey with us.
The Core Values: The Heart of Mama Strength
The new brand identity is grounded in the values that have always guided me. These are the values I’m committed to bringing into every class, every conversation, and every aspect of the Mama Strength experience:
Empowerment: I believe in equipping women with the strength, knowledge, and confidence they need to thrive.
Caring: Mama Strength is a space of compassion and support where every woman feels valued, seen, and cared for.
Flexibility: I understand that life is busy, especially for mums. I aim to provide flexible, accessible support that fits each woman’s lifestyle.
Strength and Integrity: I hold myself to the highest standards, committed to guiding the clients safely and effectively toward their goals.
Future-Proofing: The programmes are designed not just for short-term gains but for sustainable health, building a foundation of strength that supports long-term well-being. Studies into the benefits of movement and deep breathing such as that practised by default through Pilates have demonstrated the potential to prevent future musculoskeletal injury, illness and chronic issues.
What This Means for The Mama Strength Pilates Tribe
With the rebrand, I’m recommitting to the clients and the incredible journeys they embark on. Mama Strength Pilates is now more focused than ever on providing a transformative, holistic experience. I offer not only Pilates & nutrition sessions but also personalised support, accountability, and a caring community where each woman feels empowered, understood, and supported.
This new look symbolises the beginning of a more connected and enriching experience at Mama Strength Pilates—one that prioritises your well-being and provides tools for lifelong strength and confidence.
Join in This Exciting New Chapter!
I couldn’t be more thrilled to share this new chapter with you. As you browse through the new branding, logo, and colours, I invite you to celebrate what they represent: a fresh, inspiring journey of growth and empowerment that’s only just beginning.
If you’re already a part of the Mama Strength family, thank you for inspiring me every day to evolve and improve. And if you’re new here, welcome! I’m so excited to support you on your path to strength, confidence, and a healthier, happier life.
Stay tuned for more updates, exciting new classes, and resources! I can’t wait to share all that’s in store as I move forward with this renewed purpose, mission, and look. Here’s to embracing strength, support, and community – together. Welcome to the new Mama Strength Pilates!
“How do I get rid of my ‘mum pouch’?” “Now I’m getting older I notice my tummy is increasingly more bloated and swollen.” “I just want a flatter stomach again!” “I’m getting married/ want to feel great at a special occasion or in my bikini!”
These are common questions or moans I get as a nutrition coach, especially from women, and the 40+ mums. I’m often asked how to get rid of the ‘spread’ around the stomach because sit ups just aren’t working. Whilst ab work will give you kick-butt strength underneath the epidermis – the layers of the skin – they won’t burn away the fat storing ‘adipose tissue’ – booo. So there I said it. Just Pilates alone won’t burn fat. The only way we’re going to tackle this is through cardio workouts coupled with resistance / weight based training such as Pilates, to burn all over body fat, and through calorie controlled diets.
I’m a ‘older’ mum and there are many more of us now having our kids later in our thirties or into our fourties. The baby pouch can be harder to shift as we get older, and as we slide into the menopause phase.
Intermittent fasting (IF) has gained popularity amongst many age groups, and is becoming more widely revered for its health benefits – particularly for quite powerful weight management. IF could improve gut health, reducing inflammation and bloating of the gut too – a rounder tummy may not be a result of the stored fat alone, and research is suggesting IF could support longevity of life. There are lots of variations of IF and it doesn’t work for everyone as covered below. It is not for pregnant or breastfeeding mums, and if you’re not sure you should check with your trusted medical professional. Also take a look below at the special considerations for women over 40.
I have a plan to help you try out IF in a healthy, supportive and informed way, to keep on track, get the right calories and nutrients inside the ‘eating’ window, and to build some healthy habits for the years to come. See what just a week of IF could do for you. See what just a week of IF could do for you. Chat to me here!
So why try intermittent fasting?
Change in body shape: IF could help lose a few lbs because in the hours you’re not eating, the body goes into a fasted state and metabolism concentrates on burning body fat rather than processing the food you’ve consumed.
Improved Insulin Sensitivity: IF may enhance insulin sensitivity, reducing the risk of type 2 diabetes.
Heart Health: IF can lower blood pressure, cholesterol levels, and other cardiovascular risk factors.
Better brain function and focus
Better sleep as our metabolism is not focussing on digestion as we sleep.
Hormonal Balance: It may help regulate hormones related to hunger and satiety, such as leptin and ghrelin.
Possibly lower risk of chronic disease: some researchers think it could reverse certain diseases.
The different types of Intermittent Fasting.
It’s a bit of trial and error so you might prefer to try them out and see which method feels best for you and your lifestyle – and you might prefer to ease yourself into it gradually. Here are some of the popular options:
16/8 or 14/10 Method: Eating during an 8-hour window and fasting for the remaining 16 hours. (or eating during a 10 hour window and fasting for 14 hours – this is actually my preference to start out with).
5:2 Diet: Eating normally for five days a week and consuming only about 500-600 calories on the other two days.
Eat-Stop-Eat: Fasting for 24 hours once or twice a week.
Alternate-Day Fasting: Alternating between normal eating and fasting every other day.
Warrior Diet: Eating small amounts of raw fruits and vegetables during the day and having one large meal at night.
When Not to Fast
Pregnancy and Breastfeeding: Nutrient needs are higher, and fasting could deprive the baby of essential nutrients.
History of Eating Disorders: Fasting can trigger disordered eating patterns or exacerbate existing issues.
Chronic Illnesses: Conditions like diabetes, heart disease, or other chronic illnesses may require a consistent food intake.
Nutritional Deficiencies: Fasting can worsen deficiencies in essential nutrients.
Stress and Sleep Issues: High stress or poor sleep can be exacerbated by fasting.
Underweight or Malnourished: Those who are already underweight or have a low body fat percentage should avoid fasting.
Special Considerations for Women Over 40
Hormonal Changes: Perimenopause and menopause can bring hormonal fluctuations that affect how the body responds to fasting.
Bone Health: Ensuring adequate calcium and vitamin D intake is crucial, as fasting might reduce nutrient intake.
Metabolism: Metabolic rate can slow with age, and fasting should be balanced with sufficient nutrient intake to support metabolism.
Individual Responses: Women may have different responses to fasting based on their health status, lifestyle, and genetic factors.
Tips for Successful Intermittent Fasting
Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water during fasting periods.
Plan your workouts wisely – some studies show that working out in a fasted state can boost the benefits of fasting – possibly burning calories quicker. It may not be for everyone and length of workout may need to be built gradually!
Balanced Diet: Focus on nutrient-dense foods during eating periods to ensure adequate nutrition.
Gradual Start: Begin with shorter fasting periods and gradually increase as your body adapts.
Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to how your body responds and adjust fasting protocols as needed.
Consult a Healthcare Provider: Especially if you have underlying health conditions or concerns, it’s wise to seek professional advice.
Intermittent fasting can offer several health benefits for women over 40, but it’s essential to approach it with trial and error to make sure it works in line with individual health needs. Balancing fasting with adequate nutrition and consulting healthcare professionals can help maximise benefits while minimising potential risks.
P.S. please celebrate your body and the marvellous things it can do. I do regular Pilates, dance twice a week (not enough IMHO) and have significantly reduced my naughty treats, and I’m still not a skinny mini. But I know I’m healthy. That is the most important thing we can be for ourselves and our families. Period.
Have you got any niggly aches and pains, twinges and even weaknesses in key parts of your body that make physical activity/ playtime etc with the kids a bit uncomfortable – pain in your back, hips or knees for example? For me it used to be the thoracic/middle area of my back – twinges caused by hours of slumping over Baby O as I breastfed her. We kind of feel we want to close in on them to make them feel comfy and nurtured, but we’re closing in shoulders and slouching, which is only going to aggravate and squish the vertebrae. Pilates sorted me out. I focussed on the right type of exercise to counteract the slouch and re-strengthen the compressed vertebrae. And woah. The energy I have – and lack of illness – I know can be attested to Pilates.
My regular, long term clients also tell me the same. Actually these are people of all ages at the gym I teach at (some are in their 80s!). They tell me they feel strong for the day to day stuff and like they have more stamina and energy through my classes. What stands out is the transformation from their dedication to MOVEMENT…welll, not just any old movement – but Pilates of course! These people are taking my classes two or three times per week and have been with me for over 6 months. The parents among my clients tell me how they don’t notice it being a struggle to pick up and play with their kids now – whereas before they notices the heave-ho. If that’s not a testimony to the power of Pilates, I don’t know what is. Consistency is definitely key to futureproofing your body.
A good instructor will help identify areas of weakness and develop a programme of movement to strengthen areas weakened through lack of exercise or lack of focus on that muscle group.
Pilates can help to stretch out tight or tense areas and identify antagonist muscles groups: where one set of muscles may need strengthening, another opposing set of muscles may need stretching.
Pilates focuses on the breath, which is known to help increase relaxation in the total body and mind, and by focusing the breath to specific areas of the body, the breath may help to increase blood and oxygen flow to troublesome areas.
So if you’ve been starting to feel the twinge from the repetitive actions we parents do on a daily basis; feeding/leaning over baby and rocking them to sleep, putting them in the cot, picking them up and sitting them on your hip or to have a good old play around without feeling the heave ho, then perhaps you should see what the buzz is about. Chat to a Pilates instructor to get a regular programme of rehabilitative movement in your diary.
Back issues are such a cause of misery for parents, and stop them from having all the fun. I’ve got a free 30 min video of some regular, gentle back strengthening and mobility. Contact me here if you’d like to receive the video. It won’t be the magic solution, but might be a good starting point for regular movement inspiration to help. I’ll always advise to get some physio time if a pain is debilitating and more than a ‘niggle’, and you’re unable to function because of it, before working with me.
If you want a regular programme of exercises to either prevent issues, nip your niggles in the butt, or to really get you some proper energy, strength and stamina for the long run, Mama Strength is THE place to start. From just around £4.50 per session three times a week, this could be the perfect place to discover your future energy, strength and stamina.
Book a free 45 minute call with me to talk through those pains, and I’ll give you a good actionable plan of fitness and nutrition to start getting on with, whilst we get to the bottom of what could be keeping you stuck in the niggles.
🤸it helps the body absorb outside pressure from lifting heavy objects, coughing, sneezing or jumping.
🤸it helps you controls the release of urine, poo and wind!
🤸a stronger PV could help to improve your sex life…meaning you might have more desire for fun between the sheets – yeah I called it!
🤸A little bit of daily/regular attention to your PV either sitting at your desk/in traffic lights – or through Pilates – could help future proof your body….
🤸10 squeezes per day for a few seconds each (increase to 10 secs when you get the hang of it as time goes on). Then 10 shorter quick squeezes – relax in between each.
🤸We focus on PV strength in every exercise in Mama Strength Pilates with sessions 3x per week, if you keep forgetting to practise on your own!
Help to get yourself back into the fitness or movement you love without the little accidents, and prevent future issues associated with weaker pelvic floor with a bit of attention to your PV. It’s also a psychological thing. A stronger PV will help you feel stronger and more confident in physical activity of many forms (inc. in the bedroom).
Always seek advice from a medical pro if you have ongoing pain or severe discomfort in your pelvic floor area or when trying the exercises or are frequently unable to control the function of your Pelvic Floor. There’s so much support out there, particularly following a traumatic birthing process, but women aren’t always offered it automatically in recovery from childbirth. This is starting to change, as of April this year.
An excerpt from this press release here (https://www.gov.uk/…/national-pelvic-health-service-to…): “action is being taken on a national level. Backed by over £11 million of government funding from April 2024, plans published by NHS England for the implementation of a new national service will:
– ensure all women are offered a self-assessment of their pelvic health as early as possible in pregnancy – and by 18 weeks at the latest
– educate all women on the risk of pelvic floor dysfunction and birth injuries and preventative action they can take to reduce this risk
– provide additional support to those at higher risk of pelvic health problems
reduce NHS waiting times – one of the Prime Minister’s 5 pledges – and minimise administrative barriers to treatment
– allow affected women to access appropriate physiotherapy assessment and personalised treatment.”
I always advise new mums to seek out support as standard, and will continue to do so whilst this service is being rolled out.
Whatever circumstances, working lifestyle, or lifestyle adaptations are currently being made given the latest government advice about social distancing during this period of disruption, a large chunk of the population, will probably find themselves with more time at home, and possibly, depending on the age of the kids and work status, with more time with the kids. As parents we’re going to need to be mentally and physically strong for ourselves and our families amongst the catastrophe.
Here are 10 things you can do to help boost your immune system and preserve your mental health and wellbeing whatever social distancing measures you’ve decided or have to take, or if you have to self isolate, that you can do with – or without (possibly after bedtime) – the kids!:
1 Work Out.
Working out boosts the immune system and massively improves mental health.
For you: There is a mass of online fitness videos, or 1 to 1 personal workout instructors in a huge range of styles. Virtual learning platforms will become our best friend over the coming months – technology is amazing. Investing in an online personal trainer, who can monitor your workout, will ensure you’re working out safely and to your strengths.
Listen carefully to the safe workout guidelines the online practitioners should provide. Take care, don’t overdo it to avoid injury, and always ensure you have approval from a physician if you feel unwell, have underlying, continuous health conditions, are pregnant, or have given birth within the last 6 months, on the type of exercise that is suitable for you.
For the kids: Cosmic Kids Yoga is fun for kids, and once you search for them, many other kids wellbeing channels crop up in the search!
Watch this space for ideas for parent and kids work outs together from Dancing Mama Fitness…
At the time of writing (17.3.20) some of us can still get out – can still get to leisure centres. They’re still open – providing you’ve done your own risk assessment for your health – support them! The centres I teach in are heightening their cleaning routines and there is reduced attendance by members, so two metres apart from each other is achieved in most classes.
Nature, fresh air, greenery – exercise, walk, escape the confines of walls and bust some stress. Get some comfy walking boots or trainers and explore – walk far and wide with younger kids in a baby carrier (visit Wear My Babyfor a great collection), or take shorter walks to take time and educate the kids on nature or take a ball or frisbee.
3 Ramp Up the Self Love and Care
Take long baths, have a go at making scrubs and home made shampoos. There’s so many blogs online, and we can’t necessarily go wrong if the ingredients are entirely natural and applied externally only of course (ahem!). Perfect opportunity to be more careful about the environment with less packaging as a result.
Also time to cook from scratch in mass production, if there’s not usually time to do anything more than bung a ready made meal in the microwave. Cook with loads of immune system boosting fresh or frozen fruit and veg, and freeze stuff – loads of suggestions of recipes suitable for freezing online. Read my Dancing Mama blog on Parent Baby Nutrition, Baby Led Weaning Ideas and cooking on a budget here. Time to take control of what we’re consuming.
4 Meditate or Find Stillness and Breathe.
When our minds are a-jumble with so many different concerns, questions, possibly health issues too, it’s important to try to take some time out and try to switch the brain off. Guided meditation app subscriptions help spark motivation to practise regularly – I love Spotify or Insight Timer. My little one loves New Horizon Holistic Centre Meditations on either app – I’ve been encouraging her to practise deep breathing (she’s 3 in June). There’s a meditation for everything!
For you: Novels, fact, fiction, Motivational self help books, personal or business development…the list is endless. Feed the mind! Audio books are a good substitute, but we’re more likely to try to multi-task whilst listening, arguably not giving the books full attention!
For the kids: My school friend’s son has started a Facebook page as he believes every child should have a book to read or read to them at night. Check out Story Time By Max here!
6 Get arty or crafty
Do a quick online shop or support a local craft supplies retailer. Make a master piece. Adult colouring books are beautiful, and brilliant for the concentration. There may be a craft or skill you’ve been wanting to have a go at. My mum told me I have to mention knitting – perhaps I’ll get her a YouTube channel of her own! Opportunities for being creative with kids are endless – find some inspiration here.
7 Dance, play and laugh
Crank up the tunes, dance with your partner/spouse, dance with the kids, sing really loudly. That Saturday night out might be on hold for a short while. We love finding different dance styles on TV, and my little one gets so inspired, lost in a ballet or a fierce contemporary dance piece.
Social media and technology will either make or break our society. I love this diagram from @From The Other Chair on Instagram.
So hard to disassociate with all the chatter but with increased social distancing we’ll probably be looking at social media and technology far more frequently to communicate.
Conflicting evidence on facts could ultimately cause us more unnecessary stress as we consume so much conflicting info and so many different opinions.
Our brains and eyes need a break – studies show that staring at a screen longer will reduce our melatonin, disrupting sleep.
I’m also worried I’m staring at a screen too much and disengaging with my little one, so it will be nice for her to see me unattached from a phone for once!
9 Socialise (Virtually)
The above said – use technology to help you gather all your best mates, kids, family into a Google Hangouts or Whatsapp video call every now and then from phones or laptops. Have a virtual girls night in – try to still celebrate the birthdays, Mothers’ Day together. We can’t lose the ability to speak face to face and see expressions and laugh together. It’s the greatest medicine.
10 Sleep!
Get to bed earlier, wake up earlier! 7.5 – 9 hours sleep is the optimal length of time for the body to really benefit (and kids need more). Any shorter or longer is not healthy for the body. Some of the greatest leaders and thinkers are said to do their greatest work early in the morning whilst the rest of the world is still sleeping. Another great blog post from This Is Calmer about the benefits of sleep.
Time for reinvention?
Imagine if this time of unrest is actually a wake up call for us, to re-evaluate our lives and relationships, shake up our bad habits and practises that don’t serve us, and is a gift to practise some self love and care…
In a time of immense uncertainty in many aspects of our lives, my mantra lately: Where there is tension, there is reinvention.
Dance and Fitness training for mums wanting to get their groove back! Strengthen your core, pelvic floor and feel your stamina return.
The Love of Dance brings you the Dancing Mama Fitness concept! As a new mum I found it hard to find a fitness class I could join whilst having a young baby, that suited my childcare needs, time and location. I’m a dance and Pilates Instructor and needed to get my strength back but couldn’t find the classes to help me. Surely I’m not alone!
Dancing Mama Fitness will set up small group and 1:1 dance fitness training just for you and your friends. Bring your babies or young kids to join in with fun sessions incorporating the babies into exercise with and without baby carriers, or leave them at home! Babies can also be entertained in the room whilst you work out – I realise this isn’t quite giving ‘you’ time, but realistically, us mums have to compromise sometimes!
We come to an venue near you at a time that suits you, for a programme of personal training sessions around Kent and South East London.
Opt for:
Dance class in contemporary, street or jazz;
Dance conditioning; or
Pilates
Share the cost of sessions with a group of friends – the feeling of personal training on a more affordable level – or treat yourself to a personal, bespoke programme of sessions. Contact me for more information!
The Power Of Play – What better depiction of play fight than with a pink teddy!
I love a play fight. A spontaneous, innate wrestle to bundle each other, avoid or supply a tickle, or to try to get my own way.
Not a euphemism for anything kinky – honest; it’s not easy to quietly play fight anyway. So all above board when the baby is awake (ahem!), and plus my fam is likely to read this so yeah…
I love the struggle to push and pull; the wrangle and tangle of limbs. The huff and the puff, the grunt and the scream, the force, the grapple to succeed. The calories burnt, the muscles engaged, the core strength to overturn the opposition.
As long as the opponent knows when to really stop of course – there are moments when they won’t give in. A stronger force needs to know the rules, respect the signs when to relent, catch a breath, before Round Two begins.
Love the laughs, the moments where I can’t breathe either for laughing ’til I could burst, or being pinned down and unable to move. An extreme game of Twister, that extra level of tussle to intensify the workout, ok, a bruise here and there, but the feeling of euphoria at the end.
The bond the play fight forges. A patch over an argumentative moment or blasting away the stresses of the day. You can’t beat a play fight to boost the happy feels and each one rolls out every time in its own unique way.
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I had to write about play fighting like this. It’s something that always astounds me. The restorative nature from a tense moment as two people, or maybe even parent and child, push the concept of play. It may not be for everyone, and there may not be a suitable (or worthy) opponent to hand. A recovering post-natal body should probably take it easy, and their opponent needs to be clear that ‘stop’, ‘ouch’, or the agreed equivalent is understood, as is the agreed level of force. And definitely no kicking, punching or biting allowed (just a nibble perhaps)! It’s such a natural instinct we see with other mammals – dogs, cats, monkeys – they play with each other frequently, but it’s something we tend to lose as human adults. A full body work out of short bursts of intense play can surely burn serious calories. I don’t know the stats, but would be interested to know, and in addition to the laughter it’s a good all round mind and body workout. Go on – find that inner child and find the Power Of Play!
Further reading!
This is hilarious – the How To guide to Play Fighting with your girlfriend. Take note!
We’ve been living on a baby budget since baby was born. If this is the time to take advantage of the wonderful benefits we have in this country for low-income families this will be it for me.
Discovering the Healthy Start initiative for families on low incomes was a saviour for us. As freelancers living off a small maternity monthly pay out for me we are entitled to healthy start vouchers giving us a certain amount each month off of fruit and vegetables, milk, baby formula (although I’ve not regularly bought this ) and vitamins for me and Baby-O, from many major supermarkets. I’m yet to find any independent F&V stores that take them – and not sure it would be worthwhile for them to take them.
Learning to shop and cook on a low budget but still making tasty food has been a fun challenge for me. We’ve tried cutting down on meat we’ve tried going vegetarian and I’m still not sure how to cook sufficient food that will sustain us without meat. I know it can be done but we are a work in progress.
Although it drives me mad that organic produce is more expensive than non-organic I have tried to use organic for Baby-O where possible and therefore largely our diet consists of lots of fruit and veg and easy to throw together meals, cutting down on meat to allow for the slight luxury of organic.
I keep the store cupboards stocked up with red lentils, pulses, whole wheat pasta and lots of dried spices, so I know veggie dishes, although basic, can be bulked out with protein and with different flavours. As I mentioned yesterday, I’m cooking in bulk and freezing meals so I try to minimise wastage of some F&V that many not always get eaten up.
Now baby led weaning is underway and Baby-O is eating breakfast with us, the cheapest and most sustainable breakfast I know is porridge. I’ve been mixing it up depending on what fruit we have in, always mixing in full fat cow’s milk and a couple of dollops of full fat Greek yoghurt on the side has been a winner. My fave additions are:
*Apple or pear chopped into tiny pieces mixed into the porridge has gone down well.
*Frozen berries mixed in whilst the porridge is still on the heat to defrost them makes for a fun pink porridge.
*Always mashed banana mixed in with some cinnamon
*Dates soaked overnight, chopped and using the sweet water the next day to cook the porridge has been an occasional addition (dont want baby poop overload!)
*I’ve been adding a little peanut butter as I understand after 6 months babies can have peanut butter to help build up immunity to nut allergies.
I’ve learnt a lot since being off work about how to cook yummy things with very few but healthy ingredients and this will be a good life skill which is going to continue with me as Baby-O grows up.
No – BLW isn’t a delicious sandwich filling! Baby Led Weaning has been hailed by child experts as an effective method of getting babies food savvy and ready to eat many types of flavours and textures. I’ve got a few friends who recommended it, along with my cousin who is a community nursery nurse for an NHS health visiting team.
The deal is, instead of buying ready made baby food in jars or pouches, babies eat pretty much the same food as us, with their diet and nutritional dos and don’ts in mind first and foremost. I’m going to talk about cooking on a budget tomorrow, but this helps to keep food bills low.
Dancing Mama – Yes – I’m sharing Baby Food!
Now I’m having a go at baby led weaning we’re more or less eating the same foods as Baby-O, meaning we mostly cooking everything from scratch, really cleanly, without salt. Much of the base of our food is veg and pulses. It feels good. And although I’m making most recipes up, I’ve found a few recipes that I can adapt and they still taste pretty good. A recent hit was Joe Wicks, Body Coach’s Lamb Curry! Baby-O didn’t each too much of the lamb, but loved the sauce and veg, with coconut oil, curry paste (I found a low salt one and only put a small amount in her portion), red lentils to thicken the sauce, and ground cashew nuts instead of cream, as a few of the healthy tweaks Joe has made. I do sometimes take Baby-O’s portion out before adding stronger flavours or some seasoning for us, but the base of most dishes can generally be shared by us all.
I’ve found Annabel Karmel’s website, where baby specific recipes can be added to, to make them a little more interesting for the adult palette. The Baby-Led Weaning book (Gill Rapley and Tracey Murkett, The Experiment, 2010) was a useful read to see how easy and straight forward BLW is, with minimal extra preparation, and I also grabbed the Ella’s Kitchen: A Tiny Taste of the First Foods Book (Hamlyn,2015) free with the Boots Parenting Club, which gave a few more ideas for using basic ingredients, but experimenting to adapt for my meals too.
BLW has really helped me think about cooking from scratch, using fresh ingredients, largely veggie dishes as I’ve cut down on meat – and I’m definitely feeling the health benefits with more of a spring in my step!
